I get so sick and tired of hearing things like “Love is sacrifice” “Real love is losing yourself in another” “Real love is putting someone’s needs above your own”. Isn’t this what we’ve been doing all along and our relationships continue to fail? 

I am so sick of the Disney Fairytale bullshit that has been shoved down our throats all these years giving us a skewed sense of the reality of what love actually is! I am sick of women being painted as needy and insecure, being the cause of why men cannot commit. I am tired of all the messaging out there like “catch him and keep him” “become the woman he wants to be with” “trick your ex into wanting you back” “say these 59 things to make a man’s heart melt for you.” Seriously, WTF! Since when did women become predators? And who said I wanted that POS back in my life?! 

Real love, real UNCONDITIONAL love, is being yourself. Unconditional love is not without ACCEPTANCE! Real love is showing up as yourself with the security of knowing you will be accepted for nothing short of being you. Real love is growing. Accepting the challenge to always grow and never lose the sense of who you are. Real love is supporting each other on our own individual journeys without expecting anything in return. Real love is wanting nothing more from your partner than for your partner to be the biggest, best version of themselves. Real love is not selfless, it is selfish. Always putting your needs first, never losing sight of what you need and never being afraid to ask for what you want. Real love is boundaries. Strict, solid boundaries.  

Are you tired of dating? 

Are you tired of settling for anything less than real love? 

Do you want a partner that helps bring out the best in you? 

It is possible to meet a man at your level. A man that is not intimidated by you. A man that will challenge you and bring out your best. You just need to get in the right frequency to see them.